Friday, February 26, 2010

CNY @ Kuching

Yes.... Am now at Kuching. Arrived last night. Everyone ask me why go Kch on 11th day on CNY??? Come on... i wish at here on 3rd day CNY, but... the air ticket is damn costly. On 1st 7 days of CNY, return flight will cost >RM800. Guess how much i spend this trip? RM100+ only, return! Yes, return. Even cheaper than a return trip bus fare from JB to Penang. To love my wallet more, i choose to cerebrate Chap Gor May in Kch with my bf and his family. Is still within CNY, better than nothing. And for Teochewinese, Chap Gor May is an important date too.

Actually i was hesitate to come b4 i make the trip. Due to my boss last minute declare that company is shut down for 1wk during CNY and it going to waste 3days annual leave. And i left 0 annual leaves, and unpaid leave is going to cost me a bomb again. Talked with my bf and told him i might not coming on the trip, i might just waste the air ticket which had bought months ago. Unfortunately, we have bit argument, can't blame him for that as i knw my bf wish i can be here, his mom and family members looking forward to my visitation too. SInce i join this company, i was hardly visit Kuching. My bf always the one who fly over here, all because of my very limited leave and public holiday available in this KNS company. Hope my visit this time can compensate him a bit.

Well... >24hrs step on this cat city. I still love this city, feel relax here and always love the green here. Kids are over exciting with my visitation. Been "marked" by them, and my bf nephew who stay night at his house tonight told me he is going to wk up by 6am later and sit in front of our room door so that can make sure we bring him with us. Haha... so cute. Love to see Elly, Jarold, IZ and cheyenne this time. Lovely kids, just bit "over happening" at my BF house. Compare with my home, his family is definitely must riuh rendah. Big family if compare with mine. I used to be (in fact now still bit) stress on this family scale. They are close to each other, loving and hugging each other. More angmo style. Yet my family are more conservative and we r not close to each other. But, really thanks for my bf family member's, esp. his parent, make me feel like here is my home. And i glad to have them as my parent-in-law if my bf marry me. :P (desperate for marriage? perhaps. LOL)

My bf is zzz like a pig now, snoring since 11pm. Life style in KCH is always more healthier, as ppl keens to zzz and wk up earlier. I'm a night owl, really got to learn to zzz earlier. And wk earlier too. :( everyone here wk up at 7am (not later than 8am), but i at jb, i can zzz till 1pm if no wrk! God bless me! And i'm going to enjoy my KCH trip, Kolo Mee, Laksa, Tomato Noodle, White Lady, Matterhorn, Pink Guava!!!! Hahaaha...........

#PS: i miss TangTang and GalGal since the moment i step in Senai Airport. Hope they obedient to mom and stay cute and be good while i not around.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

The Mayonnaise Jar

上司forward的一封电邮。很有意思,也很适合我现在的情况。最近一直有蜡烛两头烧的感觉。一直觉得累,对新年也没很期待。唯一一件新年衣也是昨晚outstation在麻坡时买的。也一直很犹豫着25th去古晋的trip。

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day is not enough;remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class
and had some items in front of him.When the class began, wordlessly, hepicked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and start to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured it into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things - God, family, children, health, friends, and favorite passions - things that if everything else was lost
and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car. The sand is everything else - the small stuff.'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued,'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So... Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the dripping tap. 'Take care of the golf balls first - the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked'. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

Saturday, February 6, 2010

宝贝bibi






哎呀。。。。我怎么会忘了upload BIBI的照片呢。。。最近比较忙,把某人送会古晋后。忙工作,忙“伺候”糖糖及Galgal,忙大扫除,忙准备过年,接下来应该会更忙,要开始做年饼了。

她是姐姐的宝贝女儿,在我们家也是小霸王。我是她的干妈,姐姐是她的妈咪。可是在我家,我妈也是她的妈妈。乱~~~~~~

一年只有几次来bp住。通常是新年时或有时我带她回家跟galgal玩。以前她们两个一起住姐姐家,只是bibi比较好命,是住在屋子里。也跟姐姐一起睡床及有的吹冷气。可怜的galgal每天住在车房,看得心里不是滋味。原本她们两个感情很好的,galgal也是bibi难得不怕的狗。 (是的,bibi是狗,可是她也怕狗,不管是大狗小狗,只要是同类她就怕

这些照片是在不久前,为了支持新山流浪狗中心HOPES的一个捐款活动下而拍的。把bibi拍的好可爱。弄到姐姐心痒痒,好想帮bibi找经纪人,希望她有机会拍广告。哈哈。。。